Live With Urgency. Pt 1Posted by Patrick Scott on December 2nd, 2008

The next few days are going to be extremely hard for me because I am going to be sharing some things that God has placed on my heart.  I pray as you read this that you will read with open hearts and in prayer for God to keep giving me the strength to speak His truth.

I recently spent some time studying Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John.  I wanted to learn about my Saviour and how He ministered and led while He was on this earth.  The first is one that I truly believe God delivered.  If Wednesday night were the last time that students had to hear the gospel of Christ, what would I do differently?  What would I change? How would I do it?  Should I be direct or relational?

I had a good friend in high school that God had been wanting me to share the gospel with.  Unfortunately I put it off.  He died that week tragically in an automobile accident, and I blame myself.

A buzz word that I hear today is relational evangelism.  What is it?  What does this mean?  The biggest challenge in my life has been to share the Gospel with those I was closest to.  Jesus faced this same issue.  He told His disciples in Mark 6:10 that if anyone refuses to accept or receive the message to dust off your feet and move on.  The instruction was to speak a message of repentance and then heal the sick.  I see the relational aspects of this instruction being secondary to the instruction of evangelism.  Don’t get me wrong I am a relational person and a feeler so I have that desire to get to know a person and get close to them first before I introduce Christ.  However, what if the first time I met them was the only time I had with them to introduce Christ and His salvation?  The word says that there will be those that do not understand or can not hear because they are not open to hear.  These people we cannot dwell on or they will discourage us.  We must dust off our feet and move on to someone else.  We do not know the time of Christs return.  You may be ready but is the person next to you.  Another question to ask yourself.  Is your urgency to share the gospel reflective of the impact that Christs sacrifice has in your life?  I once heard a preacher say, “My desire is to live as a dying man preaching to dying men”.

Now the question that I will leave you with is this.  Is relational evangelism Biblical?  How is it Biblical? Maybe I do not truly understand the philosophy of relational evangelism so enlighten me.

Engaging Students in DiscipleshipPosted by Patrick Scott on November 26th, 2008

Discipleship is a topic of conversation that is a hot topic of conversation.  How do we lead through and how do we engage?  Many churches are failing in the area of discipleship.  It troubles me that I see students make a decision to follow Christ and then a week later they are doing the same things that they were doing before.  A year later they are still doing the same things they did before and we are still doing the same things we did before.  What is going to change?  How are we going to become more effective?

I remember when I was a student and everything I knew about being a Christian was either taught to me through someone speaking or something I read.  I never fully engaged in the practice of being a disciple.  Maybe we should be more engaging in the way we lead others through discipleship.  I see many that try so hard to think outside the box, to come up with new ways, but it ends up being a hop from one box to another.  How can we engage?  A big cultural trend today are that students like to jump on the bandwagon of causes.  You know many of these and if you dont just take a look at Facebook and see all the causes you can join.  There is a passion in students to serve others.  Wouldnt it be wise to take advantage of this by engaging students to not just join a cause but to figure and imaginative way to serve a cause.  It is great to teach what being a disciple is all about but the goal of being a disciple (student) is to ultimately become an apostle (practitioner).   We have to teach and build up and then lead them into the practice of following Christ.  It is very difficult to become an apostle without the armor of God.  The following are ways we need to step up to the plate to develop true warriors for the cause of Christ.

1. Confession

2. Prayer

3. Personal Bible Study

4. Scripture Memorization

5. Serving

6. Perseverance

7. Humility

8. Compassion

9. Leading

10. Evangelism

These are a few things that I see as vital to training.

There were some students from a church in Chicago that took up a cause to provide text books to 1000 orphans in Africa for three years.  They were challenged to raise $25000 dollars over a semester to aid in this mission.  The students were challenged to think outside the box and be imaginative on how they could serve Christ.  This was no little feat but one that could be accomplished with focus.  Some students asked for money for their birthday for this cause, some students hosted a film festival at their school.  The films were created by students and allowed them the opportunity to share the gospel to their classmates.  They raised the $25000 dollars faster than they realized and because of their focus and determination to serve they were also able to lead others to Christ.  This is just an example of students being led into serving.  The impact it had on their understanding of serving was exponential and unforgettable.  The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few.  We must realize this and act accordingly.

We cannot just teach but we also have to engage students through activity to participate in these activities.  How can we engage students creatively in these areas?

Secular versus ChristPosted by Patrick Scott on November 24th, 2008

Sometimes I am bothered at how we get our knowledge.  We look for relationship advice through Cosmo, or through relationship books that are on the NY Times best seller list.  We read books by secular authors on how to lead.  We watch television commercials to determine how to live.  I am not a subscriber or reader of Cosmo but I will have to admit that I am guilty of seeking direction by these means.  I guess what I want to do is offer caution.  Jesus lived a life perfect enough for us to follow.  He taught us how to live, how to serve, how to relate, and how to lead.  Is this not a good enough model for us to go by?  Is there more for us to know that the life of Jesus cannot show us?  I have read books upon books, some secular and some Christian, and I am convinced nothing has been more impacting in my life than the Word.   Matthew 7 tells us to be aware of wolves in sheeps clothing.  Are you being cautious, or are you diving in to the next great book, that could possibly lead you in a different direction that God’s Word.  We are living in times of deceit and it troubles me that it is so easy to become distracted by half truths.  Ephesians 6:11 says that we must put on the full armor of God to protect ourselves from the devils schemes.  Are you protecting yourself or are you trusting even what I say?

LegacyPosted by Patrick Scott on November 7th, 2008

 I just wanted to share with you some questions I have been pondering this week.

What is the most important thing you want people to remember you for?

What are you doing now to make that happen?

Is the world impacted by your presence?

What would the world say distinguishes you from itself?

Is Your Group Growing Pt. 2Posted by Patrick Scott on November 6th, 2008

It is so easy to get caught up in numbers. Numbers tell us if something is profitable, if someone is winning, or if something or someone is successful. Stop thinking about the numbers. Someone once told me, “If you are responsible in the small things, then you are more likely going to be responsible in the big things.”.

I have been talking about my experiences with small group ministry. I am not an authority and do not wish to be thought of as one. What may work for me may not work for you but experience shared can many times help someone come up with a better idea. Small Groups are about the discipleship and growth of a believer. They can offer fellowship and community, allowing believers the ability to encourage, and be encouraged, confess, and serve. My focus right now is in student ministry and student ministry discipleship.

The other day I talked about experience I have had with high school guys in my small group. We have focused on spiritual growth and numbers have been secondary. Small Groups are never meant to be large and that is why they are labeled small. What if your group only has 3 students? Why do you want more? I have learned that the more I have the less one on one time I can spend with each of them. A majority of us that lead a small group are in other careers and have families and our time is absorbed in those areas. The little extra time we have to devote to small groups should never be about quantity but quality. If you do not have the time you need to be more efficient with the time you have.  I have talked to people that lead small groups and they start curriculum just to start curriculum. They desire to see their students grow but they do not know what their students need. This all goes back to asking your students question to see where they are spiritually and how you can encourage further growth. If we honor God with the 3 that we have then He may give us the opportunity for more.

Once our guys have started to buy in to growing spiritually I have seen them start talking about inviting others. There is nothing more powerful than word of mouth. If your students are experiencing change themselves they will have the desire to share with their friends or will be asked by their friends whats going on.

Instead of focusing on recruitment, focus on retention. Why aren’t students more committed in attending small groups? Why aren’t adults more committed to attending small groups? I have seen students leave because they are confused, challenged, but more than not because they are not ready. How do you get a student ready? You get a student ready by knowing them. Many times we don’t jump on this early enough. Small Groups are not for getting to know students but for developing God Chasers. Know a student and grow a student. Why would they want to be challenged by someone that doesn’t truly know them? If a student is confused about who God is, why would they be in a discussion that they don’t understand? Once we know them then we can lead them appropriately. I only have two guys that regularly attend my small group and my focus has been on using what I have learned about them to formulate a plan that helps them grow with a solid foundation in Christ. The joy I have in this small group is something that I wish every other leader of a small group could experience. If God allows our group to grow, then I am all for it. Don’t judge your success in numbers but in what God is doing in the lives of your students.

Small Groups allow the church’s youth ministry’s core to grow, and develops a healthy spiritual foundation to grow numbers in the overall ministry. If this did not happen then the depth would be extremely shallow. Small groups or any discipleship is the backbone that allows a student ministry to build successfully upon. Your leadership is important in building the kingdom of God.